My friend is dating my brother
Honestly, I feel a bit weird about it myself, but I really love him (and I know he loves me), and I know that the longer the relationship lasts, the less weird the age gap is going to seem.
When she comes to my house, she insists on hanging out with him too, and I always have to give them alone time to make out. And, by the way, it’s totally understandable for you to feel awkward about the two of them dating.My brother and I have always been very close, and obviously my friend is my best friend, but now when I hang out with them I feel like a third wheel…with my two dearest confidants!And they hang out so much together, I don’t see either one nearly as much as I used to.Talking to them together isn’t going to work, because you’re going to feel like an outsider, and they’re going to just support each other.
Tell your BFF you need to talk to her alone about something serious.It seems stupid not to pursue something simply because of the age difference.